Thread: 10 tips on how to talk to Girls ;)

Yeah, talk about Justin Bieber. Girls have the hots for that dude.

LOOOOL i know guys who like him...... Haters gonna hate ;)

Originally Posted by Moonstone

2. Be nice to the girls that you have INTEREST in, don't be a d-bag or an a-hole because you don't want to attract those type of girls.

7. If you're really GEEKY and really can't find a way to talk, remember thats what the internet is built for.. add her on

facebook, follow her on twitter and ask some of her friends for her MSN. After you are confident enough to talk to them

over MSN it will be pretty much the same

thing in real life.

9. Do not be perverted and compliment her on her "assets"! Remember girls are different from the guy friends that you joke around with

Treat them with respect.

i have a few problems with the above ones.

#1 where is ur credibility?
#2 be nice to girls you have interest in? this is bad advice. when a girl knows that you have the hots for her, she will automatically play you down as a lesser man. girls like guys that other girls like. keep your options open AKA be cocky, funny and tease all girls, not just one. favoring the one will like will assure you that she thinks lesser of you.
#3 DO NOT use the internet as a primary to your 'game'. If you don't have the balls to talk to women in person, they're going to look at you like a little kid who has a crush on a girl just like in middle school. you need to state your game in person and use the internet as an asset to keep her interested.
#4 complimenting her is good, only AFTER you're boyfriend and girlfriend. it's like the same that as my #2. Being nice and favoring a girl you like will get you nowhere. She likes a MAN who has options and is SEXY. Not a boy who will suck up to her and do anything for her.

Anyway, my critiquing is done. All other tips you listed are good though somewhere along the lines

Originally Posted by hybridx3

i have a few problems with the above ones.

#1 where is ur credibility?
#2 be nice to girls you have interest in? this is bad advice. when a girl knows that you have the hots for her, she will automatically play you down as a lesser man. girls like guys that other girls like. keep your options open AKA be cocky, funny and tease all girls, not just one. favoring the one will like will assure you that she thinks lesser of you.
#3 DO NOT use the internet as a primary to your 'game'. If you don't have the balls to talk to women in person, they're going to look at you like a little kid who has a crush on a girl just like in middle school. you need to state your game in person and use the internet as an asset to keep her interested.
#4 complimenting her is good, only AFTER you're boyfriend and girlfriend. it's like the same that as my #2. Being nice and favoring a girl you like will get you nowhere. She likes a MAN who has options and is SEXY. Not a boy who will suck up to her and do anything for her.

Anyway, my critiquing is done. All other tips you listed are good though somewhere along the lines

Thanks for your opinion..... feedback is always gooood.

BTW: for one point you should respect women and not make fun of them but at the same time it is ok to be cocky/funny and crack jokes but don't insult women

Originally Posted by Moonstone

Thanks for your opinion..... feedback is always gooood.

BTW: for one point you should respect women and not make fun of them but at the same time it is ok to be cocky/funny and crack jokes but don't insult women

amen man. you can tease them all you want, just dont hurt their feelings is all. teasing is a great attraction builder but you need to NEVER be the nice guy. women have no emotions towards nice guys. womens emotions are what lead them to do things. therefore, it is better to be hated by a woman than indifferent to a woman. and the nice guys are the ones who women are indifferent about. therefore, teasing is better than complimenting as long as you're in the process of getting the girl. if you're going out, you've already gotten the girl and teasing isnt necessary because obviously, she's already attracted to you.

Confidence! It's all about the leading, confident guys have been proven to be more attractive than the less confident. I'm not going to bother posting the links but a quick google search on the subject will back up my statement. Now that doesn't mean that the less confident among us will have a hard time getting the ladies, don't even start on me for that because that's not what I said. My statement refers to human psychology nothing more.
Confidence is something we can all work on, even introverts can display a high level of confidence as well as shy people. Confidence is showing that you're open and receptive to the other person, that you're happy with yourself and understand your strengths and weaknesses and that you are someone who can stand up for what they believe among other things. There are many ways to improve confidence as well so nobody has a limitation placed on them. Good post anyway.

Originally Posted by Malevich

Oh, and there's nothing worse when a guy I've become acquainted with glances down my chest. As if I wouldn't notice.

hahaha .. and wait.... malevichs a woman?

you should change it to femalevich