Thread: Anyone has lost a loved one?

Has anyone lost a loved one who continues to effect them to this day?



In November would be the anniversary of a close friend of mine who died who has saved my life. she continues to influence me to this day. has anyone else had such experience?

oh crap posted in the wrong section, can someone move this to general? i apologies.

So very sorry you are still grieving the loss of your friend. What you are experiencing is completely normal. Especially since you are nearing the anniversary of her death.

I've had some of my best friends die over the years and I still think of them frequently. It DOES get easier. The old saying "time heals all wounds" is a bit trite, but it is accurate. As time passes you will be able to remember her and all the good things. You will even be able to smile. Guaranteed. Just give yourself the time.

Do something nice in her memory on the anniversary of her death. Donate to charity. Spend time with someone she loved...they surely miss her too. Write a letter listing all the great things about her you remember and burn it. Plant a tree, etc.

Good luck.

i lost my grandmother when i was 9 years old. And to this date i still talk to her every single day (im 24 now) thats how much she means and meant to me

lost my uncle (35yrs old) a little over a year ago. I feel your pain man. Some days it just gets you to thinking...he was a huge football fan so this time of season isn't the brightest for the family. agree with leftie...time heals.