2Likes
LinkBack URL
About LinkBacksI cant believe that we are talking about arranged marriage,people!we are in 2012,no in medievale!
We are the best invite forum on the internet! Here you will find free invites, free seedboxes, free bonuses, and much more. Our members know the true meaning of sharing and have created a truly global bittorent community! Our site has the most up to date information on all private trackers and our members will guide you and introduce you to this truly secretive and enlightened club. Ready to get started? Register now!
I cant believe that we are talking about arranged marriage,people!we are in 2012,no in medievale!
Well it depends on what you mean by arranged marriage. If it is like your parents or whoever hook you up with a girl and from their it is up to the two of you to decide, then sure why not if both of you want to get married that way. I wouldn't though, I wouldn't like the pressure on me, because I am expected to give an answer within few weeks, months?
However, if it is like where I came from where you aren't allowed to meet the girl till you are married to her, then hell no lol.. it is ridiculous what is going back in my country "Saudi Arabia", you are gambling with your life -_-
Also, I believe some of these statistics showing arranged marriage with less divorce percentage, is just due to the fact that most places where arrange marriage applies, divorce isn't an option. For example, if a girl in my country got divorced, thats basically game over for her lol, no one would consider her anymore..
Last edited by ops; January 19th, 2012 at 08:09 PM.
Love marriage is good. Arranged marriage CAN work given some conditions.
Love can happen after the arrangement, so there can be a compatibility between the 2 concepts of course.
Although I am maried with a wife of my own choice, and for love or course, I still think a aranged mariage can work. If you get set up with someone sharing at least a fiew of your views and interests, you treat each other with coutesy and respect and spend a lot of time with eacn other, I can't see a reason why it can not develop into a meaningfull and satisfying live. While on the other hand I can totaly understand why so many "love" relationships end up on the rocks when the fireworks fade.
Anyway it comes, mariage is a creature that needs food, water and a brisk walk every now and then(preferebaly without a leash). IOW if you work at it working , it will work. Love or aranged.
I don't much care for the idea... after all I don't think everyone is even a good fit for marriage.
In theory though, your parents probably would have a more pragmatic view of who you should marry, and thus be a better party to chose your partner. However, not all parents could be trusted to have their children's best interest at heart.
Well anyways, all that I really think about it is that it is some silly old tradition, just like a lot of other silly old traditions that are still in existence.
Posting Permissions
Reply With Quote
